Guides

Digital safety scripts, settings, and contracts.

Practical guides for phones, apps, games, and AI tools, each with a checklist and words you can use. Every guide links to a plan made for your child.

Focus and attention

Use your phone less, on purpose.

What the research says about grayscale, blur, pauses and limits, and how to set each one up for yourself or your family.

Focus research · 5 min Does Grayscale Reduce Phone Time? What the Studies Show

Grayscale screens cut phone time by about 20 to 40 minutes a day in small studies. What the research found, what it did not, and how to try it yourself.

Focus features · 4 min Grayscale Mode for Kids and Adults: Why It Helps and How to Set It Up

How grayscale takes the shine off social feeds, who it suits, what it will not fix, and how to set it up for a child or yourself without constant arguments.

Focus features · 4 min Blur Images and Video Until You Tap: Why Click-to-Reveal Helps

Click-to-reveal blur puts a small choice between you and every image. How it slows scrolling, protects kids from surprises, and how to use it well.

Focus features · 4 min Finite Feeds and the You Are Caught Up Card: Giving Scrolling an Ending

Endless feeds have no natural stopping point. A finite feed adds one. Why that helps, what the evidence says, and how to set a cap that works.

Focus features · 4 min A Pause Before You Open: Breathing Breaks and Intention Prompts

A ten second pause and a single question can interrupt autopilot scrolling. Why it works, what the research says about friction wearing off, and how to use it.

Focus features · 4 min Hiding Likes, Counts and Notification Badges: Less Comparison, Fewer Triggers

Likes, follower counts and red badges are built to pull you back. How hiding them can reduce checking and comparison, and what is and is not proven.

Focus features · 4 min Daily Time Budgets With a Gradual Greyscale Fade

A time limit that fades the colour as you use it feels fairer than a hard cutoff. How budgets work, what the research found about limits, and how to pick yours.

Focus features · 4 min Bedtime Windows for Social Apps: Protecting Sleep Without Fights

A bedtime window closes social feeds at a set hour. Why late scrolling steals sleep, what pediatric guidance suggests, and how to agree one with a teenager.

Focus features · 4 min Reduce Motion and Stop Autoplay: Making Videos Wait for You

Autoplay and animation keep eyes on the screen. Turning them off makes video start only when you choose. What it changes, what is unproven, and how to set it up.

Focus features · 4 min Blocking Shorts and Reels: Why Short Video Is Hard to Put Down

Short video feeds combine infinite scroll, autoplay and instant reward. Why many families block them, what to keep, and how to talk about it.

Focus features · 4 min Focus Presets and the Friction Lock: Calm, Study, Bedtime, Kids and Adult Self-Control

Five presets set Mom Guard's focus features in one tap, and a friction lock keeps you from switching them off on a weak moment. How to choose.

Focus guides · 4 min Doomscrolling: A Practical Setup Guide for Adults

A step-by-step plan to stop endless scrolling: grayscale, finite feeds, pauses, budgets and a bedtime window, with realistic expectations from the research.

Focus guides · 4 min Problematic Social Media Use in Teens: What Parents Can Do Without a Fight

How to spot when social media is causing problems, what to try first, and when to involve a doctor or counsellor, with calm scripts and realistic expectations.

Focus guides · 4 min Screen Time for Younger Kids: A Calm Plan for Under-Tens

What WHO guidance says about screens for under-fives, how to set routines for 5 to 10 year olds, and which Mom Guard settings suit younger children.

Focus guides · 4 min How to Talk to Your Child About Greyscale and Limits

How to introduce grayscale, budgets and pauses so a child cooperates: conversation starters, an experiment framing and answers to common objections.

Focus guides · 3 min Phone-Free Mornings and Evenings That Stick

Protect the first and last hour of the day: how to set up bedroom charging, morning routines and bedtime windows so the habit lasts beyond the first week.

Safety

Apps, settings and hard conversations.

First phone · 3 min First Phone Contract Template for NZ Families

A practical first phone agreement parents can adapt before handing over an iPhone, Android phone, or school device.

Gaming · 3 min Is Roblox Safe for 8 Year Olds?

How parents can think about Roblox chat, spending, friend requests, private servers, and family rules for younger players.

Video · 3 min YouTube Safety Settings for Kids

A parent checklist for YouTube, YouTube Kids, autoplay, comments, search, and co-viewing routines.

Social · 3 min Discord Safety Rules for Teens

A calm parent guide to Discord servers, DMs, voice chat, moderation, stranger contact, and off-platform escalation.

Incident response · 3 min What to Do If Your Child Is Cyberbullied

First steps for parents: listen, preserve evidence, report safely, involve school when appropriate, and avoid escalation.

Hard conversations · 3 min What to Say If Your Child Saw Porn Online

A non-shaming conversation script and practical device steps for accidental or repeated exposure to explicit content.

AI · 3 min AI Chatbot Safety for Children

Family rules for ChatGPT, Character AI-style companions, homework use, emotional dependence, privacy, and age boundaries.

Social · 3 min TikTok Rules for 12 Year Olds

A family decision guide for TikTok readiness, privacy, posting, DMs, trends, and algorithmic content.

Social · 3 min Snapchat Family Rules That Actually Work

Rules for streaks, disappearing messages, location sharing, image pressure, and late-night use.

Screen time · 3 min Screen Time Contract Template

A simple family screen-time agreement covering school nights, weekends, gaming, YouTube, chores, and sleep.

Gaming · 3 min Fortnite and Gaming Rage: A Parent Plan

How to set calm gaming rules around voice chat, spending, stopping, anger, and competitive pressure.

Gaming · 3 min Minecraft Online Server Safety

How to think about servers, chat, mods, realms, friend invites, griefing, and family boundaries.

School · 3 min School Device Rules at Home

A home plan for Chromebooks, iPads, school accounts, homework, YouTube, games, and parent-school boundaries.

Incident response · 3 min Online Stranger Contact Plan for Families

What children should do when someone unknown messages them, offers gifts, asks secrets, or wants to move apps.

Incident response · 3 min What to Do If Your Child Sent an Image

A practical, non-shaming response plan for parents when a child has sent a nude, sexual, or risky image.

Contracts · 3 min Family Tech Agreement Printable

What to include in a printable family technology agreement for phones, tablets, consoles, computers, and AI tools.

Screen time · 3 min School Holiday Screen-Time Plan

A flexible holiday rhythm for screens, outdoor time, boredom, gaming, travel, and family resets.

Device setup · 3 min iPhone Parental Controls Checklist

A parent-friendly setup checklist for iPhone Screen Time, app approval, downtime, communication, and content settings.

Device setup · 3 min Android Parental Controls Checklist

A practical Android setup path for child accounts, Google Family Link, app approvals, bedtime, and location boundaries.

AI · 3 min Family Rules for ChatGPT and Homework

How to set AI homework rules that respect school policy, learning, attribution, and independent thinking.

Apps · 3 min Parent Guide to App Age Ratings

Why app age ratings are a starting point, not a complete safety decision, and what else parents should check.

Routines · 3 min The Weekly Family Digital Safety Reset

A 10-minute weekly routine for checking apps, screen time, messages, settings, school issues, and hard conversations.

Schools · 3 min Parent Newsletter Template for School Online Safety

A reusable school newsletter format for digital safety updates, app risks, family scripts, and parent actions.

NZ resources · 3 min Online Safety Resources for NZ Parents

Where NZ parents can start: Netsafe, Ministry of Education guidance, school policies, and practical family plans.

First phone · 3 min How to Delay a Smartphone Without a Fight

A parent script for saying not yet to a smartphone while offering independence, alternatives, and a review date.

Incident response · 3 min The Parent Panic Button: What to Do First

A calm first-response framework for scary messages, bullying, image issues, stranger contact, and online threats.

First phone · 3 min First Phone Contract Template

A global first-phone agreement parents can adapt for iPhone, Android, school devices, travel, sleep, apps, and emergencies.

US resources · 3 min Online Safety Resources for US Parents

Where US parents can start with FTC guidance, COPPA privacy rights, parental controls, cyberbullying, and home safety plans.

UK resources · 3 min Online Safety Resources for Parents in the UK

A practical UK parent starting point for Ofcom guidance, online safety rules, school devices, app risks, and family agreements.

AU resources · 3 min Online Safety Resources for Parents in Australia

How Australian parents can use eSafety guidance, family conversations, app checks, and incident response plans.

Canada resources · 3 min Online Safety Resources for Parents in Canada

A Canadian parent starting point for cyberbullying, online sexual exploitation risks, school policies, and family rules.

Social · 3 min Instagram Rules for 13 Year Olds

A family rule pack for Instagram accounts, privacy, DMs, comments, stories, body image, posting, and time limits.

Messaging · 3 min WhatsApp Rules for Kids and Family Groups

A parent guide to WhatsApp group chats, unknown numbers, disappearing messages, images, school groups, and family boundaries.

Video · 3 min YouTube Shorts Screen-Time Plan

A parent plan for Shorts loops, autoplay habits, bedtime scrolling, recommendations, and family viewing rules.

Gaming · 3 min Online Gaming Spending Rules for Kids

A parent rule pack for Robux, V-Bucks, skins, battle passes, loot-style mechanics, gift cards, and in-game pressure.

AI · 3 min Family AI Rules Printable

A printable family agreement for AI tools, chatbots, homework, privacy, images, emotional use, and unsafe outputs.

Incident response · 3 min What to Do If Your Child Is Being Sextorted

A calm parent response plan for online blackmail, nude-image threats, screenshots, fake accounts, and urgent reporting.

Incident response · 3 min Online Grooming Warning Signs for Parents

How to spot secrecy, gifts, private apps, sexualised chat, pressure to meet, and unsafe online relationships.

Mental health · 3 min Social Media Body Image Plan for Teenagers

A family plan for body-checking, diet content, beauty filters, appearance comparison, gym pressure, and bad self-image loops.

Video · 3 min How to Hide YouTube Videos for Kids

A parent guide to hiding individual YouTube videos, Shorts, comments, thumbnails, and channels without turning every session into a fight.

Browser safety · 3 min Parent Browser Safety Extension

What a parent browser extension should track, hide, ignore, export, and never upload by default.

Gaming · 3 min Roblox Chat Safety Settings

A family checklist for Roblox chat, friend requests, private servers, spending, reporting, and stranger-contact rules.

Messaging · 3 min Discord DM Safety for Kids

A parent guide to Discord direct messages, servers, friend requests, voice chat, moderation, and private invite risks.

Schools · 3 min School AI Policy for Parents

A parent-friendly school AI policy covering homework, disclosure, privacy, cheating, tutoring, and family expectations.

Browser safety · 3 min Family Online Safety Report Template

A practical template for weekly parent reviews: risk signals, hidden posts, ignored posts, conversations, and next actions.

Hard conversations · 3 min How to Talk About Porn With a 10 Year Old

A calm, age-aware parent script for accidental explicit content, curiosity, shame, filters, and follow-up conversations.